Can a sugar daddy relationship be fulfilling?
Whether you’re a young and beautiful woman looking for a sugar daddy or an older, successful and wealthy man looking for a beautiful woman to spoil, you need to read this. There are some things you should definitely consider before entering a sugar daddy – sugar baby relationship.
It seems simple enough to do – you go to a sugar daddy website, take a deep breath and enter in your profile. You enter in what you want – if you’re a woman, you say you want someone wealthy, older and local, who knows about the finer things in life and is willing to be generous with you. In exchange, you give him your attention, your time and your affection. As a man, you say you want someone young, stylish and beautiful, who is pleasant to be with, good company, and who will accompany you to prestigious events and keep you company while you navigate life’s adventures. You will, of course, foot the bill, you say. But think the whole thing over before entering into a new relationship. Here are things to consider for both sugar daddies and sugar babies.
A must-read for sugar daddies
First, you need to realize that this new woman that is coming into your life – this young, hot, beautiful girl – is only here because you have stated that you are financially blessed, and willing to spoil her.
As long as you both acknowledge this, and are OK with the terms, you will both be fine.
She might genuinely like you and your company, and laugh at your jokes because they are humorous, and sleep with you because she’s somewhat attracted to you, but the fact of the matter is, the primary reason she’s with you is because of your bank balance. Never forget that if that money were ever to cease to be in that bank account, she would likely be gone, too. Don’t have any illusions that she is with you for other reasons than your money, and because you are spending that money on her, and then you will never be disappointed. Of course, she probably likes you at least a little, or no money would ever be worth that misery. But you cannot delude yourself that she would stay even if the money were gone.
A must-read for sugar babies
Your parents would be horrified and your friends would be aghast if they ever knew that you were considering a sugar baby-sugar daddy relationship.
“You have the potential for so much more,” they’d say. Or, “don’t you want to get settled down with a boy your own age?”
But remember, you’re a grown woman, and it’s your choice. As long as you are fine with the fact that a man may be objectifying you as a person (he’s with you because you are young and hot) and that you are receiving gifts from this man for that reason, this arrangement could work out beautifully for you. You would get to go on luxurious vacations you otherwise wouldn’t be able to afford, go to dinners at the best restaurants, and meet important people at functions that you otherwise wouldn’t attend. If you’re a student or a young person getting started in business, the contacts could be amazing for your career. Remember, this relationship is just like a business transaction. He gives you money and comfort, you bestow him with the pleasure of your company. Just don’t let it damage your self-esteem and you’ll be fine.